Abigail Russell Deputy

Birth                 1779   DE
Death   03 Nov 1864   New Castle, DE

Parents

Spouse
James Deputy (1775-1830)

Children
John R Deputy (1808-1865)
Mary Deputy Davis 1812
Daniel Deputy (1814-1863)
Sarah Deputy Draper (1818-1904)
Nathaniel Deputy (1825-1857)
Elizabeth Deputy

Siblings

Burial

Notes
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1831 Estate of James Deputy (Spouse)
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MW-0642-279, Military Warrant , 20 Jul 1853,  Iowa
Certificate 56813 for 40.17 acres 1853, Abigail Deputy widow of James, Jasper Co, Iowa
U.S. Dept of the Interior, Bureau of Land Management, General Land Office 
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MW-0758-451, Military Warrant ,  01 Mar 1854,  Iowa
Certificate 86756 for 40 acres 1854, Abigail Deputy widow of James,  Dallas Co, Iowa
U.S. Dept of the Interior, Bureau of Land Management, General Land Office
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03 Nov 1864  Death
Source: Sussex Co, DE Orphans' court, Plots, F# D-12
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27 Aug 1867, Thomas J Davis of Delaware, administrator of Abigail Deputy estate
Source: Deputy, John R. Acct 1430 State of Maryland
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09 Feb 2015   Source, sbechman@sbcglobal.net
I have the following note giving me the date and place of death for Abigail Russell Deputy:
Per "Delaware Gazette," 22 Nov. 1864, Death Announcements, page 2, col. 5:
"Deputy, Abigail, at the residence of son in law, Manlove Davis in Appoquinimink Hundred [New Castle County, DE ] in her 85th year."    Bibliography: Richards Mary Fallon, Compiler. Delaware Genealogical Abstracts From Newspapers, Vol. 1: Deaths from the Delaware Gazette, 1854-1859. 505 North Market St., Wilmington, DE 19801: Delaware Genealogical Society, n.d..
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02 Mar 2015 Add: Source, sbechman@sbcglobal.net

This may be a case of "Nice Guys Finish Last".

Daniel Deputy, b.3 Sep 1814, was the 3rd of 7 children to James S. & Abigail (Russell) Deputy, grandson to Jesse and Susan (Collins) Deputy, and g-grandson to Sylvester and Elizabeth (Townsend) Deputy.

Daniel seemed to be a "late bloomer", as he did not marry until he was almost 40 years old.

In 1840, when he was 26, he was living with his mother, widow Abigail Deputy, age 59, taking care of a 0-4yo girl, no idea who she belonged to.

In 1850, when he was 36, we find him head of a household with 3 other residents: 1) Abigail Deputy, age "19"; 2) John Watson, age 19; and 3) Jane Midcap, age 20.  As we have no record of another Abigail Deputy in 1850, and it seems unlikely that a 19 and 20yo unmarried women would be accepted as living with 2 (single?) adult men, we strongly suspect that the "age 19" Abigail Deputy is actually Daniel's mother, age 69.

Elsewhere in Cedar Creek Hundred at this time, the William R. Hickman family, with wife Sarah Thomas Hickman and 5 children - Martha, Caleb, Mary, Rachel and John - ranging from 9 to 21yo in 1860, lose their father in 1852, leaving Sarah and children in dire straits.  Although we cannot find a marriage record, it appears that Sarah & family found a savior in Daniel Deputy, who married Sarah around 1855.

Only a couple of years later, in 1857, Daniel's brother Nathaniel, who had been widowed just a few years earlier in the decade, also dies, leaving 4 children - Elizabeth, Robert, Sarah and David - as orphans.  Daniel seems to have gotten into the stepdad routine by this time and ends up taking these nieces and nephews into his and Sarah's household.

By the time of the 1860 census, Daniel has quite a family!:

Daniel Deputy         M 46 De
Sarah A Deputy        F 33 De
Robert J Deputy      M 15 De
David Deputy          M 10 De
Caleb R Hickman    M 17 De
Mary J Hickman       F 15 De
Rachel A Hickman   F 11 De
John Hickman          M  9 De

So much so, that mom Abigail has moved out to live with daughter Mary and Manlove Davis' family in Newcastle County, DE, where Abigail eventually dies in 1864.

But before Abigail's passing, Daniel meets his own demise at age 49 in October 1863.  Caring for two other families can take its toll, as you can imagine; and when the courts open probate proceedings of his estate, the assessors report back that Daniel has absolutely no goods or chattels of any value in his estate.  To add insult to injury, his wife, Sarah, who is presumed to fill the role of estate Executrix, renounces this role (despite there being absolutely nothing to execute!), and instead requests the court appoint a lawyer to file the final paperwork with the courts.

Daniel and Sarah had no kids of their own, so Daniel died childless and without family.  Even his burial site seems to have been forgotten - while a cenotaph was eventually placed on his parents' farm in commemoration of him, his brother Nathaniel, and their parents, we have no record of where or when any of them were buried.

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1840 Census, Cedar Creek, Sussex, DE
Abigail Deputy
2 m 20-29    1 f under 8     1 f 50-59
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1860 Census, Cedar Creek, Sussex, DE
Sarah Draper          F 41 De 
Lydia S Draper       F 19 De
James B Draper     M 17 De 
Abagail R Draper   F 14 De
Wm C Draper        M 12 De
Sarah Ingram          F 15 De
Abigail Deputy       F 80 De
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